How to Dominate Cougar Dating Websites

Among the many great things that the Internet has given us, one thing stands out above all others, and that is easy access to older women. If you want to bag yourself a cougar then there is no need to waste your time trawling grocery stores or hanging out in cafes. Take the easy route and sign up for one of the many sites popular with cougars.

When using online dating sites to meet cougars there are two main approaches you can take. Firstly you can use one of the more popular generic dating sites such as, eharmony or plenty of fish. Alternatively you can register with one of the cougar dating websites which are specifically for older women to find younger lovers.

Whichever option you decide on if you follow this advice, you too can dominate cougar dating websites.

Your Photo

Just because you are young and male doesn’t mean that you don’t have to put any work in to grab a good cougar. One of the biggest mistakes that men make on online dating sites is not spending enough time on their photos. One tip is to take four to five photos and then upload them to the site HotorNot. The photo that gets the highest rating is the one you should use for your main profile photo. Also your photos are an opportunity for you to show off your personality and hobbies. Photos of you surfing, cycling or rock climbing all work well. And finally when chasing cougars you don’t need to be too coy. If you have a six pack don’t forget to include the obligatory shirtless photo.

Your Profile

If you are on a generic dating site you definitely want to put near the start of the your description that you are interested in older women. You want to make it clear to cougars on the prowl that you welcome their attention. For the rest of your profile spend a little time on it. On sites such as Plenty of Fish you can see which users are the most popular. Take a look at other males in your age group that get a lot of views and see what they have written and then use something similar on your own profile.


When messaging cougars you want to make sure that you get their attention with the subject line. A generic subject line such as “hi” or “hey there” will rarely get opened. For example you might want to use as your subject “DO NOT OPEN” and then in the main body start with “I see that you have problems following the rules…” When messaging cougars don’t forget to flatter them. Where as a younger women might get tired of guys online constantly telling her she looks hot, with a cougar she will welcome the compliment from a younger man.

And finally be persistent. Some sites work better for attracting cougars than others. You need to experiment with different sites to see where you get the best results. Once you have found where the cougars congregate however, its game on!